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The Real Intimacy Gift Your Wife Wants From You
Have you been wracking your brain trying to think of the perfect gift that will bring “that look” back into your wife’s eyes? It won’t be jewelry or plane tickets to an exotic location. It won’t be any physical object. Because the intimacy gift she really wants is...
Can You Handle a Real Conversation About Intimacy with Your Wife?
My question to you is “Can you handle your wife’s truth about your intimate life?” I was thinking about this the other day while watching television. One of the characters said to another that they couldn’t handle the truth. This immediately threw me back to the scene...
Kissing: What It Reveals About Intimacy with Your Wife
Kissing, or more to the point, not kissing is often an indicator of the level of intimacy with your wife. And I’m not talking about pecks on the cheek or mouth but full-on, deep, intimate kissing. The kind you probably did when you first got together. Even if you’re...
The Hidden Path to More Intimacy with Your Wife
Did you know that your wife has a body part that is specifically designed for physical pleasure? That’s its only purpose. Its only reason for existing. And only women have it. It means that she is uniquely capable of enjoying physical intimacy with you. What is this...
The Most Wonderful Time of the Year (Really!)
Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. Not only is it in the middle of my favorite season, but there are no gifts to buy, no costumes to wear, and no real decorations to put up. Just a celebration of all the things that make life enjoyable—good company, good food, and,...
Your Wife has Desire, But Maybe Not for You
Okay, I know that sounds harsh, but it might not be as bad as you think. Because if she has any kind of sexual desire that means there is potential to improve your love life. In a recent post, I addressed spontaneous, reactive, and contextual desire. Today, I want to...
Why Your Desire and Your Wife’s Don’t Match
I have said for years that the biggest challenge to a successful marriage is that you are now, always have been, and always will be two different people. And this includes how you approach sex and intimacy. In the beginning of your relationship, this part may have...
How to Quit Defending Yourself and Stop Arguing With Your Spouse
Think about the last argument you and your partner had. What were you trying to accomplish? Be honest. More than likely, you were trying to “prove” the rightness of your position, weren’t you? On a scale of 1-10, how successful were you? How successful have you...
Why Your Wife Might Not Want to Sleep with You
In one study, 39% of women and 91% of men said they usually or always experienced orgasm in partnered sex. In another survey women reached orgasm 63% of the time and men 85% of the time when they were with a familiar partner. Better, but still a big gap. One of the...
Is It Horniness or (More Likely) Loneliness?
Sex can be great. And if you’re not having any, it can be frustrating. Especially if you have a spouse or significant other who is sharing your life and your bed. And if this is happening in your marriage, you’re part of the almost 25% of adults who reported having no...
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