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Celebrating Not Just a Long but a Well-Lived Life
"You can’t help getting older, but you don’t have to get old." George Burns I’m writing this as I’m sitting at the airport waiting to go west for my aunt’s 100th birthday. She is the second relative to hit that magic number. My great-grandmother made it to 104. These...
Is Your Wife Your Friend or Your Rival?
"Insecurity is at the heart of every rivalry." Beth Moore Several years ago, a client of mine said, “If I do what my wife wants, she wins.” I had two thoughts. First, you don’t want to make accommodations for your wife? Second, you’ve just set your marriage up as a...
The One Thing Your Wife IS Absolutely Right About
"Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person, they are almost indistinguishable." David Augsberger I recently received a comment on my post “Why Your Wife is Always Angry with You”. It was by a man who said that I believe that women are always...
Adopting This Mindset Leads to a Winning Marriage
"The way a team plays as a whole determines its success." Babe Ruth Love is in the air. At least it is in my neck of the woods. Each of the children who grew up on my block have or are about to tie the knot. My daughter got married 5 ½ years ago. The four boys—from 3...
No, Divorce Doesn’t Come Out of Thin Air
"Divorce is a 50-50 thing, and it can be a number of petty things that finally drive you out of your mind." Lee Radziwell To paraphrase Dr. Phil, don’t you just hate it when you’re living your life, providing for your family, handling day-to-day activities, when your...
Hero Husbands Do Accountability—Not Blame
"Trust, honesty, humility, transparency and accountability are the building blocks of a positive reputation." Mike Paul Think about the people you admire the most. Do they take ownership of their actions? Or blame others when things don’t go their way? My guess is...
Don’t Half-Ass Your Marriage
"Marriage is not just a spiritual communion, it is also remembering to take out the trash." Joyce Brothers The novel I’m currently reading has the main character realizing he only shows up in his marriage when it’s convenient. This week’s blog from my colleague...
Moving Through Inertia in Your Marriage
"Silence is the language of inertia. "Margaret Hefferman Inertia is defined as “a tendency to do nothing or to remain unchanged”. I’ve been thinking about it this week as I’ve been changing my business phone carrier. I’ve been with the same company for at least...
Being Right vs. Happily Married
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." English Nursery Rhyme First, I need to point out that no one—not you, your wife, me, no one—is ever right all the time. So, if you are a “right fighter” you will struggle in your marriage. And if...
Your Marriage: Paying Now or Later
"Motion creates clarity. Waiting creates anxiety." Olly J Several years ago my client Todd said, “My marriage is important but…..” My mind immediately went to “now he’s going to tell me why it’s not.” Because that’s what the but means. I get the same feeling when I...
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