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Adopting This Mindset Leads to a Winning Marriage
"The way a team plays as a whole determines its success." Babe Ruth Love is in the air. At least it is in my neck of the woods. Each of the children who grew up on my block have or are about to tie the knot. My daughter got married 5 ½ years ago. The four boys—from 3...
No, Divorce Doesn’t Come Out of Thin Air
"Divorce is a 50-50 thing, and it can be a number of petty things that finally drive you out of your mind." Lee Radziwell To paraphrase Dr. Phil, don’t you just hate it when you’re living your life, providing for your family, handling day-to-day activities, when your...
Hero Husbands Do Accountability—Not Blame
"Trust, honesty, humility, transparency and accountability are the building blocks of a positive reputation." Mike Paul Think about the people you admire the most. Do they take ownership of their actions? Or blame others when things don’t go their way? My guess is...
Don’t Half-Ass Your Marriage
"Marriage is not just a spiritual communion, it is also remembering to take out the trash." Joyce Brothers The novel I’m currently reading has the main character realizing he only shows up in his marriage when it’s convenient. This week’s blog from my colleague...
Moving Through Inertia in Your Marriage
"Silence is the language of inertia. "Margaret Hefferman Inertia is defined as “a tendency to do nothing or to remain unchanged”. I’ve been thinking about it this week as I’ve been changing my business phone carrier. I’ve been with the same company for at least...
Being Right vs. Happily Married
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." English Nursery Rhyme First, I need to point out that no one—not you, your wife, me, no one—is ever right all the time. So, if you are a “right fighter” you will struggle in your marriage. And if...
Your Marriage: Paying Now or Later
"Motion creates clarity. Waiting creates anxiety." Olly J Several years ago my client Todd said, “My marriage is important but…..” My mind immediately went to “now he’s going to tell me why it’s not.” Because that’s what the but means. I get the same feeling when I...
Be a Good Guy, Not Just a Nice One
"He who stops being better stops being good." Oliver Cromwell You’re familiar with the expression “nice guys finish last” aren’t you? Maybe you’ve experienced that for yourself at some point in your life. I’m not saying don’t be nice. I’m just saying it’s not enough....
How Do You Experience Love?
"Where there is love there is life." Mahatma Gandhi I’ve been working with clients around their relationships for more than 25 years. So I often think I’ve heard just about anything and everything. But last week, my client Matt surprised me. He asked—“What does love...
Honesty in Your Marriage is the Best Policy
"People like to say that the conflict is between good and evil. The real conflict is between truth and lies." Miguel Angel Ruiz Is honesty in a relationship a virtue in and of itself or must it be “rewarded”? This is the question I asked myself after one of my...
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