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When Your Wife Says “Talk”, Your Brain Hears “Danger”
“The priceless galaxy of misinformation called the mind.” – Djuna Barnes Have you ever walked away from a conversation with your wife thinking, "What was I thinking?" Or maybe... "I knew better than that." You replay the conversation in your head. You think of all...
Why You Avoid Difficult Conversations with Your Wife
“All things are difficult before they are easy." Thomas Fuller If you're a successful professional, chances are you're no stranger to difficult conversations. You negotiate contracts. Deliver performance reviews. Handle unhappy clients. Lead meetings where millions...
The Conversation Beneath Every Argument in Your Marriage
“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." Albert Einstein Have you ever walked away from an argument thinking: "How did we end up fighting about that? Again?" Maybe it started because you forgot to call. Or because the...
Stop Trying to Make Your Wife Happy
“By accepting yourself and being fully what you are, your presence can make others happy." Jane Roberts "Happy wife, happy life." It's probably the most repeated marriage advice in history. It's well-intentioned. It's simple. It's memorable. And I think it's quietly...
AI Can’t Save Your Marriage
“Information is power only if you can take action with it. Then, and only then, does it represent knowledge and, consequently, power." Daniel Burrus There has never been a better time to get marriage advice. Seriously. You can ask AI almost any question about your...
The Constitution Your Marriage Needs
“Maturity comes in three stages: dependence, independence and interdependence. Jenna Jameson This weekend we'll celebrate the birth of American independence. But there's another kind of independence that's just as important. Especially if you're a husband. Here's what...
“Winning” the Argument Can Cost You Your Marriage
“Do you want to be right or happy? — Michael Easter Most successful men are rewarded for finding problems. At work, your ability to spot weaknesses is an asset. You identify risks before they become disasters. You challenge assumptions. You ask hard questions. You...
Why Smart Men Settle for Less in Their Marriage
“The biggest human temptation is to settle for too little.” ― Thomas Merton Most of the men I work with are successful. They solve complex problems, manage teams, and make good incomes.If something isn't working in their professional life, they don't ignore it. They...
The Marriage Problems That Start as Whispers
“Reality does not go away when it is ignored.” Thomas Sowell Most marriages don't fall apart because of one big mistake. It isn't usually an affair or a particularly bad fight. It isn't the moment someone says, "I can't do this anymore" or “I love you but I’m not in...
Marriage Is More Than the Wedding Day
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu My 40th anniversary celebration seems to continue. My husband and I are currently doing a mini version of our honeymoon in Sonoma Valley. We're on our way to our...
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