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Why “Going Through the Motions” Is Quietly Killing Your Marriage
"Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own." —Robert A. Heinlein Every February, two major “events” collide. Valentine’s Day and the Super Bowl. On the surface, they couldn’t be more different—one wrapped in hearts and...
Heroism in Marriage Isn’t About Bravery
"Great things never came from comfort zones." Neil Strauss Most men don’t avoid change in their marriage because they’re cowards. They avoid it because their brains are lying to them. You probably think you’re a rational, logical decision-maker. That you assess facts,...
Your Marriage Isn’t Broken, Your Basics Are
Life is about who you can help along the way. Kobe Bryant Marriage isn’t a game you win. It’s a partnership you build — day by day, choice by choice, moment by moment. Just like any craft worth mastering, it takes intention, humility, and heart. Today I want to talk...
The Quiet Power You’re Not Using in Your Marriage
"One day or day one. You decide." Unknown BJ Fogg, in Tiny Habits, makes a distinction most men don’t want to hear: Most people don’t fail to change because they lack ability.They fail because they lack courage. In other words, “I could change… but” is rarely about...
A Marriage Lesson From the Movie Jay Kelly
"The choices we make are ultimately our responsibility." Eleanor Roosevelt There’s a moment in the movie Jay Kelly that’s easy to miss if you’re not paying attention. Tim—not the main character—looks at Jay and accuses him of “stealing my life.” It’s a loaded...
The Reason Your Marriage is How It Is
“A goal without a plan is only a dream." Brian Tracy It’s a new year but will your marriage still struggle with the same problems? Probably not what you want to be thinking about as the calendar turns over yet again. But I have a question--if not now, when? Three men...
Menopause and Gray Divorce—A Red Flag for Your Marriage
“Menopause. A pause while you reconsider men.” — Margaret Atwood Menopause is a natural stage of life — but if you’re noticing tension, withdrawal, or emotional distance in your marriage right now, it’s not “just the hormones.” What you’re experiencing could be a...
Mistaking Proximity for Connection is a BIG Red Flag in Your Marriage
“We are wired for connection. But the key is that, in any given moment of it, it has to be real.” Brene Brown In the world of family law attorneys and marriage counselors, January is known as Divorce Month. This is the second in a series about Marriage Red Flags that...
The Role of Sex in Your Marriage: Healthy or Red Flag?
"Sex: the thing that takes up the least amount of time and causes the most amount of trouble." John Barrymore If there is one topic that consistently comes up in my work with men, it’s sex. Not because men are shallow or selfish. Not because they don’t care about...
The Holiday Burden That Could Break Your Marriage
"Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does."- William James Every year, without fail, family law attorneys brace themselves for the same thing: January’s divorce surge.And while the filer often says, “I didn’t want to ruin the holidays,” the truth is usually...
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