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Will This Be Your Last Holiday Season as a Husband?
If that question got your attention—GOOD! Because if you’re not sure the answer is a resounding NO, you don’t have a lot of time to avert disaster. A focus on making the holidays great for your family may be hiding an intention to blow it all up come the new year....
Do You Take Your Marriage (and Your Spouse) for Granted?
As a small business owner, I have to think about the state of my business a lot. If I don’t pay attention, it will fail. You might think about your job pretty frequently too. But how much thought do you give to your marriage? Probably a whole lot less than it needs....
4 Simple Steps to Take When You Think Your Wife is Over-reacting
Here’s the scenario—your wife is on the verge of, or actually in, tears. You’re finding it difficult to not only understand what she’s saying but to even understand why she is upset. In your mind, she is blowing the situation out of proportion, but you know better...
3 Killer Mistakes You are Making as a Lover
How often do you think about your skill as a lover? Thinking about it too much can paralyze you. And thinking about it too little can result in frustration for your partner. Finding that sweet spot can mean the difference between just an “okay” sex life and a great...
Looking for That One Thing Sure to Spice Up Your Sex Life?
Hotter, more enjoyable sex—who doesn’t want that? It can be a constant quest for a new position, technique, or toy. Maybe you’re even considering BDSM, polyamory, or “swinging” to bring new life to your intimate encounters. The truth is, there is very little “new”...
How You’re Giving Up Control in Your Marriage
Do you believe your wife tries to control you? Do you try to control her? This whole idea of one partner “controlling” the other is, quite frankly, a cop out. It is an abdication of your personal responsibility for what your relationship looks like. But the idea of...
If Your Marriage is Only “Okay”, It’s at Risk
It’s happened again. A frantic phone call from a man whose wife just asked for a divorce. He was devastated and, worse, blindsided. He thought everything was fine. Not stupendous but okay. Certainly not bad enough to end the marriage. Now, he’s desperate. He loves...
How to Have Good Sex in a Long-Term Relationship
No, you did not misread that. It is possible to keep your sex life going in top form through the years, no matter how old you are or how long you’ve been together. Unfortunately, sex, or lack thereof, is often a source of frustration and arguments in many marriages....
What’s Normal vs. What’s Common in a Long-term Relationship
Do you accept what’s common in your relationship or what’s normal? What’s the difference you say? Normal is defined as “conforming to a type, standard, or regular pattern”. One definition for common is “widely existing, general, prevalent”. Something can be both...
Dealing Productively with Conflict Leads to Better Sex—Who Knew?
Movies and television shows frequently show couples in the heat of battle suddenly ripping each other’s clothes off and having mind-blowing make up sex. But I have a question—when was the last time that happened in your marriage? Yelling, name calling, and having your...
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