Responsibility, Not Blame for Your Marriage

Responsibility, Not Blame for Your Marriage

“The single most empowering thing you can do is take responsibility for yourself, 100% of the time.” Mel Robbins  If you’ve ever had an argument with your wife and found yourself mentally building a case for why you were right, you’re not alone. You...
You’ve Changed But Your Wife Doesn’t Trust It

You’ve Changed But Your Wife Doesn’t Trust It

“Stop being afraid of what could go wrong, and start being excited about what could go right.” Tony Robbins There’s a statistic every married man should know: Women initiate roughly 67% to 90% of divorces, depending on the study and the population being...
Own Your Part Without Taking All the Blame

Own Your Part Without Taking All the Blame

“I will keep constant watch over myself and‚ most usefully‚ will put each day up for review.” Seneca When things go wrong in your marriage, it’s easy to start building a case. You remember what she said. You remember what you said. You can probably point...
When Getting Along in Your Marriage Isn’t Enough

When Getting Along in Your Marriage Isn’t Enough

“Such silence has an actual sound, the sound of disappearance.” Suzanne Finnamore You could be in the middle of a quiet divorce and not even know it. One of the things that can make a quiet divorce so difficult to recognize is that there may not be much conflict at...