Are You Leading Your Marriage—or Just Delegating It?

Are You Leading Your Marriage—or Just Delegating It?

“Leadership is action, not position.” Donald McGannon Watch The Video You probably consider yourself a leader. At work, you set goals. You make decisions. You solve problems. You create a plan and get people moving toward a common goal. And if you’re...
Marriage Is More Than the Wedding Day

Marriage Is More Than the Wedding Day

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu My 40th anniversary celebration seems to continue. My husband and I are currently doing a mini version of our honeymoon in Sonoma Valley. We’re on our way...
Lessons from a 40-Year Marriage

Lessons from a 40-Year Marriage

“If you live to be a hundred, I hope I live to be a hundred minus one day, so that I never have to live a day without you.” —Winnie the Pooh Watch The Video I wasn’t supposed to celebrate a 40-year wedding anniversary. At least, not according to the odds. I’m a child...
Is Your Marriage Worth Fighting For?

Is Your Marriage Worth Fighting For?

“When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when it’s convenient. When you’re committed to something, you accept no excuses – only results.” Ken Blanchard I’m still thinking about Independence Day and what it can...

How Do You Experience Love?

“Where there is love there is life.” Mahatma Gandhi I’ve been working with clients around their relationships for more than 25 years. So I often think I’ve heard just about anything and everything. But last week, my client Matt surprised me. He asked—“What...
Your Marriage Might NOT Have a Tomorrow

Your Marriage Might NOT Have a Tomorrow

“I’ll think about it tomorrow. After all, tomorrow is another day.” Scarlett O’Hara   It’s been a rough week, technology wise. And if you know me, you know that’s not a good thing. I’m a digital immigrant who does okay, as long as all my devices are...