Why Winning at Work Feels Easier Than Winning at Home

Why Winning at Work Feels Easier Than Winning at Home

“An ounce of performance is worth pounds of promises.” – Mae West Let’s be honest — most of you reading this are really good at what you do. At work, you have systems, strategies, and clear metrics for success. You know when you’ve crushed a project, closed a...
Your Ego vs. Your Marriage

Your Ego vs. Your Marriage

“Marriage is our last best chance to grow up.” Joseph Barth My mother would often tell the story about how my father would correct her, in public, over a minor “factual” mistake. If she said something was ½ inch, he, an engineer, would point out it was...
The Real Secret to a Happy Marriage

The Real Secret to a Happy Marriage

“Friendship is what gives love its wings.” Sherry Thomas Asking yourself if you’re in love with your wife or just love her is the wrong question. Or her asking the same about you. The real question you want to focus on is, “Do you LIKE each other?” Enough...
Take the Goldilocks Approach to Your Marriage

Take the Goldilocks Approach to Your Marriage

“There is a middle ground in things.” Horace You’re familiar with the story. Goldilocks goes into the house of the three bears—Papa, Mama, and Baby Bear. She sits on their chairs. Tastes their porridge. Climbs onto their beds. Goldilocks finds that Papa’s...