The Constitution Your Marriage Needs

The Constitution Your Marriage Needs

“Maturity comes in three stages: dependence, independence and interdependence. Jenna Jameson Watch The Video This weekend we’ll celebrate the birth of American independence. But there’s another kind of independence that’s just as important....
“Winning” the Argument Can Cost You Your Marriage

“Winning” the Argument Can Cost You Your Marriage

“Do you want to be right or happy? — Michael Easter Most successful men are rewarded for finding problems. At work, your ability to spot weaknesses is an asset. You identify risks before they become disasters. You challenge assumptions. You ask hard questions. You...
Stop Trying Not to Disappoint Her

Stop Trying Not to Disappoint Her

“Be yourself- not your idea of what you think somebody else’s idea of yourself should be.” Henry Thoreau Watch The Video I was recently talking with a men’s dating coach about something that comes up all the time—how to avoid getting put in the...
Why She’s Not in the Mood (And How to Change That)

Why She’s Not in the Mood (And How to Change That)

“Among men, sex sometimes results in intimacy; among women, intimacy sometimes results in sex.” Barbara Cartland Watch The Video If you’re like most of the men I work with, this question has crossed your mind more than once: “Why doesn’t she want sex as...
Tired of Being Blamed for Your Marriage?

Tired of Being Blamed for Your Marriage?

“Many think that assigning blame settles matters.” ~ Mason Cooley Watch The Video A while back I wrote a post, Is Your Wife Always Mad at You?, and it generated a lot of comments. Some of you said: “So women get to act like children and men have to stay...