The “Us” Factor: What Most Couples Forget

The “Us” Factor: What Most Couples Forget

“I ask you to pass through life at my side—to be my second self, and best earthly companion.” Charlotte Bronte My husband and I are headed out of town right now—so this will be shorter than usual. We’re going to MerleFest—a four-day music festival in the...
Stop Trying Not to Disappoint Her

Stop Trying Not to Disappoint Her

“Be yourself- not your idea of what you think somebody else’s idea of yourself should be.” Henry Thoreau Watch The Video I was recently talking with a men’s dating coach about something that comes up all the time—how to avoid getting put in the...
Conflict in Your Marriage Isn’t the Problem—Avoidance Is

Conflict in Your Marriage Isn’t the Problem—Avoidance Is

“Peace is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to cope with it.” –  Mahatma Gandhi Watch The Video Let’s clear something up right away: Confrontation isn’t aggression.It’s clarity. It’s saying, “This matters enough to me that I’m not willing to...
Why She’s Not in the Mood (And How to Change That)

Why She’s Not in the Mood (And How to Change That)

“Among men, sex sometimes results in intimacy; among women, intimacy sometimes results in sex.” Barbara Cartland Watch The Video If you’re like most of the men I work with, this question has crossed your mind more than once: “Why doesn’t she want sex as...