Hero Husbands Do Accountability—Not Blame 

Hero Husbands Do Accountability—Not Blame 

“Trust, honesty, humility, transparency and accountability are the building blocks of a positive reputation.” Mike Paul   Think about the people you admire the most.  Do they take ownership of their actions? Or blame others when things don’t go their way?...
Don’t Half-Ass Your Marriage

Don’t Half-Ass Your Marriage

“Marriage is not just a spiritual communion, it is also remembering to take out the trash.” Joyce Brothers The novel I’m currently reading has the main character realizing he only shows up in his marriage when it’s convenient. This week’s blog from my...
Moving Through Inertia in Your Marriage

Moving Through Inertia in Your Marriage

“Silence is the language of inertia. “Margaret Hefferman Inertia is defined as “a tendency to do nothing or to remain unchanged”. I’ve been thinking about it this week as I’ve been changing my business phone carrier. I’ve been with the same company for at...
Being Right vs. Happily Married

Being Right vs. Happily Married

“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” English Nursery Rhyme First, I need to point out that no one—not you, your wife, me, no one—is ever right all the time. So, if you are a “right fighter” you will struggle in your...
Your Marriage: Paying Now or Later

Your Marriage: Paying Now or Later

“Motion creates clarity. Waiting creates anxiety.” Olly J  Several years ago my client Todd said, “My marriage is important but…..” My mind immediately went to “now he’s going to tell me why it’s not.” Because that’s what the but means. I get the same...