“Winning” the Argument Can Cost You Your Marriage

“Winning” the Argument Can Cost You Your Marriage

“Do you want to be right or happy? — Michael Easter Most successful men are rewarded for finding problems. At work, your ability to spot weaknesses is an asset. You identify risks before they become disasters. You challenge assumptions. You ask hard questions. You...
Why Smart Men Settle for Less in Their Marriage

Why Smart Men Settle for Less in Their Marriage

“The biggest human temptation is to settle for too little.” ― Thomas Merton Most of the men I work with are successful. They solve complex problems, manage teams, and make good incomes.If something isn’t working in their professional life, they don’t...
The Marriage Problems That Start as Whispers

The Marriage Problems That Start as Whispers

“Reality does not go away when it is ignored.” Thomas Sowell Watch The Video Most marriages don’t fall apart because of one big mistake. It isn’t usually an affair or a particularly bad fight. It isn’t the moment someone says, “I can’t do...
Marriage Is More Than the Wedding Day

Marriage Is More Than the Wedding Day

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” Lao Tzu My 40th anniversary celebration seems to continue. My husband and I are currently doing a mini version of our honeymoon in Sonoma Valley. We’re on our way...
Lessons from a 40-Year Marriage

Lessons from a 40-Year Marriage

“If you live to be a hundred, I hope I live to be a hundred minus one day, so that I never have to live a day without you.” —Winnie the Pooh Watch The Video I wasn’t supposed to celebrate a 40-year wedding anniversary. At least, not according to the odds. I’m a child...