Do What Works in Your Marriage, Not What’s “Fair”

Do What Works in Your Marriage, Not What’s “Fair”

“Sometimes the urge to be right can be very wrong for a relationship.” Charles F. Glassman Do you want to be “right” in your marriage, or do you want to be happy in it? I want to address some of the criticism I’ve gotten in response to my piece, “Is Your Wife Always...
Your Children Need You to Improve Your Marriage

Your Children Need You to Improve Your Marriage

“Your future depends on what you do today.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi Should you stay married for the sake of your children? In a word, NO. But should your children be the reason for you to take action to strengthen your marriage? ABSOLUTELY. Maybe you’ve bought...
Making Your Wife Feel Loved

Making Your Wife Feel Loved

“You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.” — Barbara De Angelis Making Your Wife Feel Loved Jeff called me in a panic. His wife claimed that he’s never loved her and if things didn’t change, she was leaving. When he tried to defend...
Is Your Marriage Worth Fighting For?

Is Your Marriage Worth Fighting For?

“When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when it’s convenient. When you’re committed to something, you accept no excuses – only results.” Ken Blanchard I’m still thinking about Independence Day and what it can...
Happy In(ter)dependence Day!

Happy In(ter)dependence Day!

“Interdependence is a choice only independent people can make.” Stephen Covey At this time when we are celebrating Fourth of July—the day we recognize the beginning of the United States fight for independence from Great Britain—I want to praise the equally...